From Ex to Sex (And everything in between—questions guys ask, or should ask!)

This Q&A Coaching Covers it All: • The nuts and bolts of starting over
• Why time is absolutely on your side
• “Is it normal to feel this way about my ex-wife, my kids, other women?”
• Dating again—what kind of woman you should be looking for?
• Having sex again—when, how much, working out the kinks, and more
• Getting serious—how to avoid the same mistakes this time around
• How to go for a good thing when you see it—you deserve it!

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About the Authors

Sam J. Buser, Ph.D is past-president of the Texas Psychological Association. He is also a member of the American psychological Association's Division 51 (Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinity) and has specialized in treating men for more that 15 years. Dr. Buser is an adjunct faculty member of the Counseling Psychology Program at the University of Houston teaching graduate courses in marital and family therapy.

Dr. Buser has appeared on the nationally syndicated Montell Williams Show, and has frequently appeared on local radio and television programs as an expert on a variety of psychological topics. A veteran himself, Dr. Buser previously worked for many years doing family therapy in VA Medical Hospital. (More...)

Glenn F. Sternes, Ph.D is an expert in the field of interpersonal relationships, men's issues and human sexuality. He teaches graduate courses on the subjects and maintains a clinical practice in the Houston Area.

He and coauthor Sam J. Buser, Ph.D. are highly trained clinicians, licensed psychologists with 20+ years of experience. Both have frequently presented at local, state, and national conferences and have independent practices in Houston, Texas. (More...)


More About the Book

The emphasis of this book is not on legal pitfalls, but on how men can manage the psychological issues inherent in a divorce. The authors give extensive coaching to men in how to begin dating again, the nature of sexuality post-divorce, and making choices that can lead to a successful future marriage.

When it comes to getting your life back together after divorce, most of the great advice out there is geared toward women. Sure, there’s no end of advice for men about financial and legal concerns. But, what about YOU personally—your adjustment to a new kind of life, your uncertainty about how to start over. (More...)


For more answers and helpful resources The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce by Sam J. Buser, Ph.D. & Glenn F. Sternes, Ph.D. is the single best resource for men facing divorce. Easy to read, lively, down to earth, and definitely guy-friendly. One of the best tools for lawyers, family doctors, therapists, and health-care professionals — every office should have a dozen copies. Written by nationally recognized experts in men’s issues.