Face it. When it comes to getting your life back together after divorce, most of the great advice out there is geared toward women. Sure, there’s no end of advice for men about financial and legal concerns. But, what about YOU personally—your adjustment to a new kind of life, your uncertainty about how to start over. Your time has come! Whether you are newly separated or finalized your divorce last year, The Guys-Only-Guide to divorce answers questions from hundreds of men just like you about how to get on with a better life!

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The 20 Most Frequently Asked Questions for Guys Getting Over Divorce

Among the questions we get asked the most by men facing divorces, these lead the list:

1. Why did my wife leave me? What can I do to get her back?

2. Does separation mean divorce is inevitable?

3. Do I have to use an attorney to get a divorce? How do I know if I can trust one?

4. What should I discuss with my wife before hiring a divorce attorney? What should I NOT discuss?

5. How do I break the news to the kids? Does divorce always hurt them?

6. My friends say I should throw a “divorce celebration’” party. Is this OK to do, especially if I have kids?

7. I don’t think I can get over my divorce until I get back at her. I think about it all the time, but I don’t want to hurt the kids. How can I let go and what do I do to move on?

8. What can I do if my ex-wife alienates me from the kids?

9. My friends say I should start dating again, and my family says it’s too soon. How do I know what to do?

10. Where does a divorced guy like me go to meet a good woman?

11. When should a dating relationship become sexual? What do I absolutely need to know about post-divorce sex?

12. Sex is good with my new girlfriend, but I’m not sure I EVER want to get married again. How will I know if I’m ready for a committed relationship?

13. When should I meet her children? What if her kids don’t like me?

14. I had an affair, and I'm hot for my new love. Should I leave the marriage and not look back?

15. My wife and I do not agree about custody of the children. I heard that sometimes a psychologist decides where the children will live. How does that work?

16. What can I do about my sense of failure?

17. What if I am convinced about "Parental Alienation Syndrome"?

18. I'm not young, and when I "come", it takes a great deal of time for me to feel sexy again. Same thing when masturbating. What's going on?

19. How do I tell the ex about my new love? Or do I?

20. What are typical wedding issues I should be aware of for my second marriage?


For more answers and helpful resources The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce by Sam J. Buser, Ph.D. & Glenn F. Sternes, Ph.D. is the single best resource for men facing divorce. Easy to read, lively, down to earth, and definitely guy-friendly. One of the best tools for lawyers, family doctors, therapists, and health-care professionals — every office should have a dozen copies. Written by nationally recognized experts in men’s issues.